How many times have you said to your girlfriends “I’ve had enough I can’t do it anymore” but then stayed with him? We’ve put together a list of 5 things that are deal breakers. If your man does more than one of these things it may be time to reconsider the relationship. These are our top five deal breakers.
1. HE DOESN’T SUPPORT YOUR DREAMS
Your boyfriend should be your number one supporter. No one knows you like him, right? So why is he making you forfeit your dreams for him. We no longer live in a society where women are homemakers and men are moneymakers. Make that money girl, with or without him.
2. HE DOESN’T GET ALONG WITH YOUR FRIENDS
I get it, your man might not want to hear you and your girls squeal when AthenaX throws a glass of wine on Victoria in the latest episode of Real Housewives of Sydney but you don’t really like it when he has all the boys over watching the footy on a Friday night either… There’s a difference between you/your boyfriend tolerating these things and him being a complete downer whenever your girlfriends are around. As lame as it sounds, friends are forever, they’ve helped you through everything…. Including break ups.
3. HIS FAMILY MATTERS BUT YOURS DOESN’T
You know when Christmas/Easter rolls around and you have to choose who’s family to spend it with? If you’ve only spent one or two of these big occasions with your family, its time for him to go. Family is very important in any relationship and if time spent with your family isn’t important to him he shouldn’t be important to you.
4. THERE’S NO MORE DATE NIGHTS
Yes, you live together and see eachother everyday but isn’t it nice to dress up every now and again and go out? When date night dies down it’s fun for the first little while to play house but after a while your relationship turns into more of a relationship that room mates have… you’re just co-existing.
5. WHERE’S THE SEX?
Sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship, it’s what differentiates a friendship from a relationship, so when it disappears where does that leave you? Sex should be fun and experimental no matter how new or old the relationship, once that spark is lost it’s hard to get back.
